At 3 years of age, does your child:

If you check  “No” to any of the following questions, contact your Public Health Nurse at  250-850-2110. It’s never too soon to make sure your child is on track.   

YES
NO  
Have an increasing attention span? (For example, can stay with one activity for 5 minutes)
     
Understand ideas such as big/little, loud/quiet, up/down?
     
Know at least 2 colors and sort different objects?
     
Use 2-5 word sentences and ask questions? *
     
Understand prepositions, such as “on,” “under,” “beside,” etc.?
     
Walk up and down stairs independently, using first one foot then the other to climb each step?
     
Have greater balance? (For example, able to stand on one foot, jump forward with both feet)
     
String large beads on a shoelace?
     
Play and talk with both children and adults?
     
Play by herself and with other children briefly, and start to learn to share and take turns?
     
Use her imagination?
     
Act much more independently, wanting to do things herself (But still learning to follow simple rules)?
     
Understand and say her feelings?  (Emotions may still change suddenly – she is still learning how to handle her different emotions)
     
Enjoy reading and listening to stories and rhymes for 5-10 minutes at a time?
     
Speak clearly enough to be understood most of the time by family members?
     
Understand two-step directions? (For example, “Pick up your shoes and put them in the closet”)
     
Correctly say the words – “my”, “home”, “pie”, “pop”, “bee”, “bib”, “no”, “man”, “one?” *
     
Understand and use some describing words like “big”, “dirty”, “wet”, “hot?” *
     
Throw a ball forward at least one metre (three feet)?
     
Twist lids off of jars or turn knobs?
     
Turn the pages of a book one page at a time?
     
Dress or undress with help? *
     
Show affection with words and actions?

* Starred items may not be common to children in all cultures. Please click here for a discussion of what this star might mean for Aboriginal children.

Activities to Encourage Development:

  • When looking at books, have your child tell you about the pictures.
  • Bring your child to a community playgroup or preschool where she can learn to interact and play with children her own age.
  • Talk with your child about feelings and emotions.  Help her to identify and name them ( For example, “I’m sad”)